Friday, October 06, 2006

Forgiveness Trumps Personal Retaliation

What a difference a few days make!
Rage and hostility on Sunday...remorse and repentance on Thursday.
Yesterday Andre Gurode said he's decided not to press legal charges against Albert Haynesworth following the NFL game between the Cowboys and Titans. While the repentant Haynesworth won't be charged with assault for cleating Dallas Cowboys center Andre Gurode in the face (requiring 30 stitches) he will still have to submit to a five game suspension and the possibility of not being allowed back on the field at all by his current team.

This story in my opinion though is more about Andre Gurode than about Albert Haynesworth. While football is a violent sport you cannot get away with abuse. There are rules to follow and penalties to mete out... and if flagrant enough legal retribution as an option to consider. If you saw this brutality on Sunday as I did (over and over again thanks to instant replay) you might wonder why anyone would forgo their right for legal justice as Andre did.

But what overshadowed the vicious cruelity on the football field was the senseless murder/suicide in the Amish community of Pennsylvania on Monday. A usually quiet and peaceful part of the country was plunged into violence that no one deserves to experience. However, what shook the heads of many people was the response of the Amish families. Instead of retribution they chose to pray. They even reached out to the wife of the murderer and invited her to the private funerals of those killed.

Forgiveness is a choice of the heart but it is not always easy. Forgiveness costs something each time it is given. In the case of the Cowboys football player it cost him his legal right to seek assault charges. Greater still I believe was the response of the Amish community. How could anyone be that compassionate? I believe that kind of compassion can only come from above.

Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." Luke 23:34 (NIV)
When was the last time you forgave someone who intended to harm you? While there is a place for justice there is an even greater need for Jesus!

Roger, over and out!

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