Marriage For A Lifetime Part 2

Below is a brief excerpt of the latest news item from smartmarriages.com I received in my email this morning.


It seems a graduate student in economics at Cornell University released a study showing that men who are married are more likely to finish doctoral programs than are single men. ...Joseph Price’s new study shows that married men do better than single men in academe not only in finishing their Ph.D.¹s, but in publishing and landing a first tenure-track job…The study was based on data from 11,000 graduate students from 100 departments over a 20-year period.

There are many reasons for both men, and women by-the-way to get married and just as many reasons for them to stay married. The one mentioned above is just one example. But the greatest reason for men and women to get married is found in scripture.


God said, "It's not good for the Man to be alone; I'll make him a helper, a companion." Genesis 2:18 (MSG)
When the God of all creation recognizes the need for companionship then we should all take notice. There are other passages pertaining to the purpose of marriage but the one found in Genesis chapter two is relational. If marriage is meant to bring companionship then divorce just takes us back to square one “It is not good for man to be alone.”


God, not you, made marriage. His Spirit inhabits even the smallest details of marriage. And what does he want from marriage? Children of God, that's what. So guard the spirit of marriage within you. Don't cheat on your spouse. Malachi 2:15 (MSG)

I like the quote found in Iris Krasnow’s book “Surrendering to Marriage: Husbands, Wives, and Other Imperfections.”


My dream is when my four sons 20 years from now are picking wives they look at marriage as a lifetime adventure. I hope they look at divorce as some ancient trend that came out of the hippie movement and just died.

While divorce as been around for 1000’s of years it seems that since the 1960’s it has become the normal and acceptable thing to do when difficulties arise. Let's start a new trend today by guarding our marriage relationship.

My question to all of us is… What are we doing on a daily basis to guard the spirit of our marriage? If you have let your relationship with your spouse slip recently why not take him or her out to dinner and spend some time together. It will not only reconnect the two of you but it will be pleasing to God.

Roger, over and out!